Tribute Wall
Tuesday
12
January
Memorial Visitation
4:00 pm - 6:00 pm
Tuesday, January 12, 2021
Hoyt Funeral Home
199 Main Street
New Canaan, Connecticut, United States
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Alexis uploaded photo(s)
Monday, January 11, 2021
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I met Rupe when we were in our mid-twenties in New York. Kiki had come down from Boston for a weekend in the city and we went to a W&L party one night. I am serious when I say that Kiki and Rupe took one look at one another and that was that. They were two peas in a pod from that time on. He will always be a person to admire...for his intelligence, decency, temperament and willingness to be present, supportive and loving to those around him. His physical presence will be greatly missed. My heart goes out to all of his family and friends and especially to Kiki, Miles and Charlie. We love you.
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Stacey Payne posted a condolence
Monday, January 11, 2021
Kiki, Miles, & Charlie, I’m so sorry my loves. I’m sending Love, prayers & healing to you all. ~Stacey Payne
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Gene Solomon posted a condolence
Sunday, January 10, 2021
An incredible father and friend a void for all of us with the loss of the man I called R3. Incredible support and love from Kiki, Charlie & Miles the memories will live forever of the monopoly games, throwing the football around, Thanksgiving Dinners and others too many to list. The brightest of stars. Miss you R3
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Charles Chisholm posted a condolence
Sunday, January 10, 2021
I grew up knowing Rupert as Allan or "Doonie". Many years ago, Allan, his father (Uncle Rupert) and I went quail hunting on a family property in Montpelier. We failed miserably as hunters. A number of shots were fired but we didn't hit anything except for maybe a couple of trees. Fortunately, our goal as family was exceeded...we spent several hours walking, talking and laughing in the great outdoors. Definitely a quality outing with family and time well spent!
-Charles "Bubba" Chisholm
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Rob Hadley uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, January 10, 2021
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Al (Rupe) going to miss you brother and I know we just reconnected in the last year, but it was like we never missed a beat. So many great memories of our years at Lower Dauphin High School. Until we meet again, keep playing the Aerosmith. Life is so short and prayers to everyone. Love you man- senior week OCMD. Seems like yesterday.
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Melanie Singer lit a candle
Saturday, January 9, 2021
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Kiki, Charlie and Miles, my heart goes out to you all during this difficult time. May his memory be a blessing and a comfort forever.
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Murray Felzer lit a candle
Saturday, January 9, 2021
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Mike Miceli lit a candle
Saturday, January 9, 2021
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Miles - My deepest condolences to you and your family. After reading this, it is evident how you have turned into a respectful young man and I am sure he is very proud of you.
Sincerely,
Mike Miceli
Denise Tienken Luczak posted a condolence
Friday, January 8, 2021
Kiki-I am so sad for you and your family. I know from Heather what a wonderful, kind and generous husband and father he was to your family. I am sending you thoughts and prayers and love. With deepest sympathy Denise (Tienken) Luczak
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Anna Feinsilver lit a candle
Friday, January 8, 2021
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Rupert was an inspiration to anyone who crossed his path. He was kind and generous and always made those around him feel comfortable and welcome. Rupert's face would light up when speaking about his family, sports, the boys shenanigans and life in general. We will truly miss him, as a coworker and a friend. May his memory be eternal.
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Gina lit a candle
Friday, January 8, 2021
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Kiki you’re an amazing wife and caregiver. So sorry for your loss. It was a privilege to meet you both and to take care of Rupe.
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Vladimir Lemin posted a condolence
Friday, January 8, 2021
Rupert, your fighting spirit and your kindness were such an inspiration to me and my family. Your willingness to help other people, who you barely knew, set a great example for all of us. I'm blessed to have worked and got to know you. Your sons have a great role model in front of them. RIP. - Vladimir.
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frank prezioso posted a condolence
Friday, January 8, 2021
Rupert, you will be missed immensely. Its been an honor to be your friend and to have worked with you for twenty years. Your steadfastness for your family, friends and co-workers in the face of your diagnosis was truly remarkable. Your sons have so much to be proud of. Rest in peace. Frank Prezioso
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Helen lit a candle
Friday, January 8, 2021
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Rupert, I will never forget your friendly smile, your inspiring stories, and your dedication at work. May you rest in peace at heaven, and may your family safe and sound during this special time. All the best, -Helen
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Scott Werneburg lit a candle
Thursday, January 7, 2021
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Kiki, Charlie & Miles, I am so terribly saddened to hear of your husband / father's passing. I still remember meeting him back in 2015 when I wasn't sure whether 4th grade Miles was really enjoying football (boy, did that change!). He was so genuine, supportive of his son & team, and generous with his time and kind words. I can only imagine the type of caring, loving father & husband he was. Wishing you all peace.
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Todd Gilbert lit a candle
Thursday, January 7, 2021
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I got to know Rupert during my years of coaching Miles. A great man who was always so helpful and appreciative. Never complained and always had a kind word for Miles' coaches.
Kiki, Miles and Charlie I am so sorry for your loss. I will cherish my fond memories of Rupert.
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The family of Rupert FitzAllan Chisholm III uploaded a photo
Thursday, January 7, 2021
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