Obituary of Susan Farmer Lindholm

Susan Farmer Lindholm, age 74, of New Canaan CT and formerly of Raleigh NC died peacefully Friday March 19, 2021 in Norwalk Hospital surrounded by her loving family.  Born in Poughkeepsie, NY December 6, 1946 she was the daughter of Bruce and Marie Farmer. 

Sue was as an Administrative Assistant with IBM for 32 years.  She retired in 2014 and was able to spend time with her grandkids and making frequent trips to her favorite place, Hilton Head Island.

 Sue was a thoughtful, caring and loving Mom, Nana and friend who will be missed every day but we know she will be watching over us always.

Susan is survived by her daughter, Michelle Finez and husband, Robert of Raleigh NC and her son, Raymond Lindholm, Jr. and wife Jamey of Fuquay-Varina NC; grandchildren, Dylan Finez, Raymond “Trey” Lindholm and Reagan Lindholm; her sister Cathy Verrilli and husband, Colin of Apex, NC; and nieces, Danielle Doyle of Durham NC and Marianne Sides of NYC; and a very dear friend Cathy Manion of New Canaan.

Services and Interment will be private

Sue donated to many charities but one that was very important to her was the food bank.  Please remember her by giving your time volunteering or making a donation to your local food bank. 

 “To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends, to appreciate beauty, to find the best in others, to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition, to know even one life has breathed easier because you lived.  This is to have succeeded.”                 Ralph Waldo Emerson