Joseph Adiletta of New Canaan Connecticut passed away peacefully in his sleep after a full 95 years of life on April 4th, 2026, at the Brookdale Wilton Assisted Living Center in Wilton.

Joseph (Joe) was born and raised in Stamford Connecticut and graduated from Stamford High School.  He served his country honorably in the Korean War in the 187th Airborne Infantry Regiment of the US Army as a paratrooper where he was severely wounded and received the Purple Heart Award.  He recovered fully and despite losing one of his eyes led an active life as an avid athlete, sharing his passion for fitness with fellow members of the YMCA where he maintained a lifelong membership until age 95.  He was also an active member of the New Canaan Waveny Center where he played tennis and pickleball and used the outdoor gym equipment also until age 95.  His lifelong passion for handball led him to being a recognized senior’s handball champion.  He also coached in children’s sports leagues and played basketball (Has Been Bombers). 

Joe’s career in accounting began with a bachelor’s degree from New York University and a master’s from Pace University.  His career included being a Certified Public Accountant helping people with tax preparation, and handling tax management and accounting controls for various companies including Chase Bag Corporation in Greenwich Ct among others.  His motto when evaluating a company or investment was “Follow the money!”.    

Joe was the son of Nicholas and Anna Adiletta of Stamford Connecticut and husband of Eta Adiletta who predeceased him (over 50 years ago).  He is survived by his sister Adelaide Reilly in East Freetown Massachusetts, and his sons: Steve (and his wife Justine) of Houston Texas, Fr. David O.P. of New York City, and Peter (and his wife Anne Marie) of Halifax Nova Scotia.  He is also survived by his five grandchildren and their families.  He enjoyed their company and those of his many friends while sharing his ideals of being physically and financially fit.     

A memorial service will be held at St. Aloysious Church in New Canaan Connecticut at 10:00 am on Wednesday April 29th, 2026.  Joe was a long-time member of the parish for nearly 60 years where he faithfully attended the vigil Mass each Sunday and would help with the collection.  Internment of his ashes will occur at a later date at Arlington National Cemetery in Virginia.

In lieu of flowers, please considering donating to the YMCA to help other people develope their physical fitness.

https://www.ymca.org/donate/form

The Family is being compassionately cared for by the staff at Hoyt Funeral Home, 199 Main Street, New Canaan CT 06840

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